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Stand-up comedian Mulamwah has shared his perspective on financial dynamics in relationships, expressing his opposition to the 50/50 concept. He believes that couples should combine their resources unless one partner is uncertain about the relationship’s future.
During an interview with Dr. Ofweneke, Mulamwah emphasized that men should take responsibility for their households and provide leadership.
“I don’t support the idea of splitting finances equally. As a man, it’s your duty to take charge and support your partner. The moment you insist on 50/50, it means there’s a lack of unity. A couple should pool their resources unless someone is already planning to exit the relationship,” he explained.
When discussing challenges women may bring into relationships, he suggested that many have turned them into financial transactions.
“Some women treat relationships as if they are jobs, expecting men to provide for everything. A man should uplift his partner so she can be self-sufficient, but many assume all responsibilities should fall on him. While some women are capable of taking initiative, they instead view relationships as financial opportunities,” Mulamwah noted.
On the topic of keeping a man interested, he advised women to embrace their feminine nature.
“Be soft and nurturing. Even if he makes mistakes, he might change and start coming home early. If you leave every time someone cheats, how many relationships will you walk away from?” he questioned.
When asked if he would forgive his partner, Ruth K, if she cheated, Mulamwah laughed before responding:
“Right now? That’s not even realistic. But I trust her; she’s a straightforward person. Forgiving her wouldn’t be an option because I know she wouldn’t do that.”
Meanwhile, social commentator Bravin Yuri echoed similar sentiments, arguing that men should not push for a 50/50 setup.
“If a man says, ‘I can’t date a broke woman,’ that’s a red flag. Those are the ones who advocate for 50/50 relationships, which I always warn against. A man should provide, and if he is wealthy, his woman should enjoy that wealth too. A woman’s true value lies in her respect for her partner,” he said.
MP Jalang’o also dismissed the 50/50 approach, calling it outdated.
“A man is meant to provide. What’s the point of being with a woman if you can’t take care of her? Why should she be responsible for expenses?” he questioned in a past interview with SPM Buzz.
Even during tough financial times, Jalang’o insisted he never let a woman cover any costs.
“Even when I was broke, I made sure no woman ever paid for anything. This 50/50 mentality is backward and unacceptable,” he declared.
What’s your take? Would you consider a 50/50 arrangement in a relationship?
